Is finding love your ultimate goal? Learn to love yourself first

Now, as you find yourself feeling broken after - yet another - relationship with a narcissistic partner, you may feel like finding a trustworthy partner is your ultimate goal. But here's the truth... It's important to learn to love yourself first!

You want to unlock the secrets of attracting the great love of your life.

You’re eager to come home to a peaceful and loving environment. You’re tired of the endless arguments and walking on eggshells in your own space. You want to know HOW to find the *perfect person* - whatever that means to you.

And yes,of course it can be an important area of life. Love is great!

You might (deep down while you flip between wanting to try dating apps, and dragging yourself forcibly to ‘socialize’) think your problem in life is the lack of that special love. That if you could just find that person, your little Tetris blocks of happiness would fall into place.

Years of laser focus on the belief systems of successful women who struggle with relationships, have taught me that this is not your problem.

I see patterns...

You must love yourself first

The problem is having not yet experienced a true unconditional knowing and love for who YOU are.

What YOU deserve, what YOU need from yourself, and choose to require of people in your world.

You may have been subtly (or not-so-subtly) fed the message your whole life ; that regardless of how much you've achieved elsewhere, your intrinsic value as a woman can only truly come from being partnered, married or having children.

Essentially, worth by proximity to getting and keeping a man. It creates a high tolerance for pain and poor treatment from partners - to fulfill your role and please your parents/society.

The place my clients get to, where everything changes (and it is BEAUTIFUL to see), is when they no longer feel like they NEED that person. Imagine it…

You feel so complete, so whole in yourself, that a partner would be the sprinkles on the cupcake of your life! A compliment to the already delicious treat.

This kind of certainty, self assuredness and confidence is magnetic. It is no surprise that, for those wanting reciprocal and conscious love - it seems to come when you feel YOU have come HOME to YOU, and carry yourself as such.

Are you ready to take the next step?

If you desire this change, to truly know and love yourself once and for all - to relearn what it is that YOU love, what YOU care for the most, what YOUR passions are, what YOU crave in your life.

To strengthen from within the boundaries you hold, and let go of what is not taking you higher - then I have a program coming your way soon.

If you have been curious about any of the keys I mention - re-parenting your inner child, what role the inner critic plays for you (and what even is that?), your connection to your intuition, dismantling the beliefs that disempower you, boundaries for people who have trauma, somatic healing & nervous system practices, abuse dynamics, red flag training and feel you are ready and motivated to Rise the F**k Up - join my RISE Membership!