The feeling of shame after narcissistic relationships...
May 31, 2024If you’d look at yourself in the mirror right now… when you look in your eyes, do you feel that pull to quickly look away? Is the feeling you have, shame?
You may feel deeply ashamed about the place you’re at right now.
Most likely, you’ve even been avoiding your mirror altogether, for more than a cursory glance to check how noticeable your dark circles or eye bags are. You don’t want to face who you think you have become.
There was a time when you felt that your high-end career and money must resemble a successful life. You felt empowered, and all of the doors were open. You had things most people could only dream about. You were on top of the world.
But then he came around and tore you down, bit by bit. Maybe there have been several now, and you are starting to give up hope.
How did you find yourself in narcissistic relationships, yet again?
The truth is, you feel like you should not have been able to be sucked in by another manipulator. Another love bombing shapeshifter who promised to be all you could ever need. You feel you should have known.
You have a great education and a “good head on your shoulders”. And yet here you are, in the messy aftershock of another break up, with a person who’s spiteful and hateful behavior you hardly recognize.
You look in the mirror and think - how did this happen? How did you get yourself into this mess?
The feeling of shame after narcissistic relationships
But here’s something you should know - the shame is not YOURS.
It is a construct of a victim blaming narrative in a largely ignorant society. It is a product of what you were modeled, and how you learned love works. It is not that you are “bad at love” or “choose the wrong people”. And you HAVE the power to BURN IT ALL DOWN 🔥
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